Did you know that under the current federal guidelines if a person with disabilities marries, even though the court continues to declare him or her to be a dependent with a guardian, that person loses the right to receive Social Security benefits he would be entitled to receive upon the retirement or death of his or her parents?

Our laws are making the choice regarding a couple's options quite clear. "Do not marry! You cannot afford to do that!" is its message. And we call ourselves a "family-oriented" society!

Our law, through our society, has confused the skills needed to support oneself financially with the skills needed to make and sustain a committed, loving relationship. Many non-disabled individuals may fully support themselves, but do not have the skills needed to maintain a healthy marriage. They are clearly separate issues, but not in the eyes of current legislation.

Our society's expectations, and consequently our laws, have not kept pace with the medical advances in our country. Many who would have died as babies, children or young adults are now living long, but too often, lonely lives. They deserve to have same generation families of their choosing, as well.

Please support new legislation allowing those with disabilities the rights to benefits they will find critical in their later lives. Those benefits will be crucial to their being able to live in a safe, consistent environment in their elder years.